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Hold the line, keep your dignity, and stay on your knees.Whatever you do, resist the temptation to get caught up in petty arguments about "grounds for divorce." That will only cloud the issue.That doesn't change the fact that "cybersex," unlike pornography or masturbation, usually involves another human being. This is where "virtual" sexual activity takes participants to a deeper and more troubling level.In some cases, "virtual" technology enables online lovers to live out their passions in a vivid and all-consuming way. To that extent it can't help but take on a certain "relational" aspect.
I recently discovered that he's been involved in an ongoing "relationship" via the Internet.
You're correct to point out that Jesus equates lust in the heart with the act of adultery.
What's more, He follows this up, just five verses later, by making allowances for divorce where or extra-marital sex has invaded a marriage relationship.
Insist that the two of you seek professional marital counseling together.
It's especially important that he come to the place where he can acknowledge that "cybersex" is anything "innocuous." Let him know that you'll do everything in your power to heal the relationship as long as he's willing to cooperate.
Others may think of it primarily as a kind of "game" or a high-tech form of masturbation.